2B Frank Coaching — reclaimyourtime.co.uk
Instructions: Read each warning sign carefully. Be honest with yourself — does this describe you right now? Tick the ones that apply and count your total at the end.
These aren't opinions. They're research-backed indicators of work-life imbalance that predict burnout, health problems, and relationship breakdown.
You frequently cancel or reschedule time with family and friends due to work demands. Social invitations have dried up because people have stopped asking. You're physically present but mentally absent.
Chronic fatigue, frequent headaches, digestive issues, sleep disturbances, changes in eating habits. You've stopped exercising. You "don't have time" for the doctor. Your body is sending signals and you're ignoring them.
You're easily agitated. Disproportionate reactions to minor frustrations. Snapping at your partner, your kids, your team. The fuse gets shorter every week.
Activities you once loved are neglected. You can't remember the last time you did something purely for fun. When you do have free time, you don't know what to do with it.
Even during personal time, your mind is on work. Every conversation drifts back to business. Your partner has said "can we talk about something other than work?"
You struggle to mentally detach in evenings and weekends. You check emails compulsively. There's a low-level anxiety humming in the background at all times. You can't enjoy a film, a meal, or a conversation without your mind wandering to work.
Excessive caffeine to get through the day. A glass of wine that's become a bottle. Doom-scrolling to numb out. Comfort eating. Whatever your pressure valve is, you're using it more and more.
You're achieving your business goals but it doesn't feel good anymore. There's a persistent dissatisfaction. You've built what you thought you wanted — and it's not making you happy.
When you're with family or friends, you're thinking about work. You're scrolling under the table. Your kids have started saying "Dad/Mum, put your phone down." You're there — but you're not.
You work through lunch. You skip holidays. You feel guilty about taking time off. You view rest as unproductive. You see breaks as weakness, not as the fuel that keeps you running.
This checklist shows you where you stand. It doesn't show you how to change it. That's what the Reclaim Your Time programme is built to do — systematically, over 16 weeks, with a coach in your corner.
The Work-Life Balance Scorecard breaks your situation down across 8 specific domains — not just a yes/no checklist.
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